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Greetings and blessings to you all my fellow strangers (just kidding) I am the strange one in this case. All jokes aside, it has been a while since I've posted anything and to tell you the truth it's been rough. Depression is real and I'm not to the point where I'm in any danger to myself or others but dealing with the loss of  a close loved one is a brand new challenge for me. I'm quite surprised that I've made it thus far but God is so awesome and He always send someone or something my way to reassure me all will work out for the better and that way worse could've been the case if the situation were opposite.

I know it's others out there currently suffering like me but let me be the first to tell you, you're never alone. I deal with the same hurt and quite frankly it will never end but that does not mean you got to stop living. If anything a death that hit so close to home should inspire us to live more! I know my little bro would want me to live it up like we always talked about. Buying a bunch of land, have some cows with a bull and a horse ranch. Huge ass estate with everything you could imagine off in the country. That was myself and Jalen's daily conversation to live the dream. Now what would that mean to him if he knew I'd given up all hope? I can't let that hit my conscious and you can't afford to either. Why? Out of pure love. Funny thing is that's all the world is lacking. Love for one another. Compassion for everyone and everything. That's another subject for another blog post but yeah you'd do it out of love for him or her naturally, especially if you really knew the kind of person they were while alive.

Bottom line, don't allow yourself to be victimized into situations you have no control over. Be sure to control your own emotions and not someone else's. We all have different paths to walk and hearts to listen to. We all have separate minds to mold and regulate and we all have the freedom to do so or not. Never let negativity corrupt your vibrational plane and enjoy your own wavelength. Y'all ain't ready ha! Oh by the way for those who don't know my book Big Homie Wisdom is available on Amazon now! Here's a copy and paste link to it: https://www.amazon.com/Big-Homie-Wisdom-Joshua-Nichols/dp/1549941933/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1508953917&sr=1-1&keywords=big+homie+wisdom

Once again I want to send a big thank you to everyone who's already purchased their copy. Some special shirts will be coming out soon a few have already seen the design on my Facebook (Joshua Allen Nichols) and Instagram (@theintellect) so shoot me a pm and let me know if you'd like to purchase one or two! Stay tuned my people God got some big things in the works right now and I do plan to share the knowledge as well. May God bless you all and stay safe my people!

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